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Post Wed Apr 27, 2016 4:28 am

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Is if a couple willing to be together and if by there mind and by there heart they are committed to each other . So my question is that is marriage rituals are neccessary then? Becoz by there mind and by there heart they had already accepted each other so then can't they live without spoiling money on there rituals . So people say that without doing these rituals a couple gets sinned and resides in hell .? Is it so! :( :shock:

Post Wed Apr 27, 2016 8:37 am

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Is if a couple willing to be together and if by there mind and by there heart they are committed to each other . So my question is that is marriage rituals are necessary then? Becoz by there mind and by there heart they had already accepted each other so then can't they live without spoiling money on there rituals .

No need of rituals.

People say that without doing these rituals a couple gets sinned and resides in hell .? Is it so!

It is not so. It is blind faith. But, that is done to maintain a society as a whole.

1)See- you will at least follow govt rules and get it registered, right? [even if it is not necessary].

2)Similarly, if possible, better go to temple or church or whatever faith you belong, and just follow least amount of the rituals, not taking more than 5 minutes. No need to invite any of your relatives, but if parents of both are willing to come, let them come. If for this proposal, the temple priest or your parents do not agree, then you need not perform any ritual, Just do 1) above.

The point is- better not to take sudden strong change/step. Baba says- after coming to gyaan, you will not like to do bhakti. But, the family members may feel bad if you sacrifice bhakti immediately. So, you may pretend to do the bhakti for their favour. While doing bhakti, you (will be obviously now) think of Shivbaba.

So, it is wise to reduce the bhakti slowly, and then sacrifice it fully. In some cases, it can be done instantaneously. So, better check in what atmosphere you are, and move.
Murli Pt:- Gambheerataa se full marks jamaa hota hai. Mamma toh gambheerataa kee devi thi. = The virtue seriousness gives full marks. Mamma was a deity of seriousness.


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